What’s something about yourself that you’re most proud of? Whether it’s a hidden talent, a personal achievement, or just something that makes you smile? Mine is the life I’ve built for myself, all on my own.

At 48, I’m single, and I’ve learned to embrace it in a way that I never thought I could. There was a time when being single at my age felt like a failure, like I hadn’t ticked all the boxes society expected me to. But now, I see it differently. I’m proud of the independence I’ve cultivated, the strength I’ve found in standing on my own two feet.

I’ve traveled the world, visiting places I once only dreamed about. I’ve explored the bustling streets of Tokyo, wandered through the ancient ruins of Rome, and lost myself in the vibrant colors of Marrakech. Each trip has been a testament to my ability to create my own adventures, to find joy in my own company.

My career is another point of pride. I’ve worked hard to get where I am, climbing the ladder and proving that my worth goes beyond the traditional expectations of marriage and family. I’ve taken risks, made tough decisions, and come out on the other side stronger and more confident.

But it’s not just the big things. It’s the little moments too. Like how I’ve turned my home into a sanctuary, a place that reflects who I am and what I love. It’s filled with books, art, and memories from my travels. It’s a space that makes me smile every time I walk through the door.

And then there’s the fact that I’ve learned to truly enjoy my own company. I no longer feel the need to fill every silence with someone else’s voice. I’ve discovered the beauty of quiet mornings with a cup of coffee, the peace of a solo hike through the woods, and the satisfaction of pursuing hobbies that bring me joy.

Yes, there are moments when I wonder what life would be like if I had chosen a different path. But those moments are fleeting, quickly replaced by the deep sense of fulfillment I feel in the life I’ve built. I’m proud of the woman I’ve become—strong, independent, and unafraid to live life on her own terms.

So, when people ask me what I’m most proud of, the answer is simple: I’m proud of me.