After 22 years of marriage, I never thought I’d find myself in this situation. Tom and I had built a life together, raised two children, and started a successful business. But as the kids grew up and moved out, I noticed him becoming more distant. I tried everything to reignite the spark between us, but nothing seemed to work.

Then, I discovered the truth—Tom had been having an affair with a co-worker for over a year. Instead of confronting him right away, I decided to take control of the situation. I quietly met with a divorce attorney and had the papers drawn up. The next week, I served Tom the divorce papers at his office. Watching his face turn pale as he realized what was happening gave me a sense of power I hadn’t felt in years. I was done being the supportive wife. It was time for me to put myself first.